Wednesday, July 20, 2011

I don't like my hardwood floors - i need some advice?

If you want the same floor throughout then I would use vinyl strip flooring with different prints on it. It is waterproof--good for the bathroom and kitchen--and looks pretty good. You can put laminate flooring down but some of it isn't all that great near water. Hardwood flooring can also be put down, but it isn't the best idea for a bathroom--but it has been done before. You can overlay your existing floor as long as it is all at one level.

I am head over heals for my boyfriend?

We have only dated for a month. Is it possible for me to be madly in love with him right now? Like, I literally want to marry this guy one day. I know this is real. We have also been best friends for 5 years before we started dating.

Skin is rubbed raw help please ?

So I went bike riding and the seat rubbed the inside of my thighs really raw. How should I go about healing the skin? My thighs rub together naturally and the skin keeps opening up and bleeding so it's not like I can just stop walking. Any suggestions? and how long will it take for it to heal?

I hit my toe really hard what can i do?

earlier today i made a dumb mistake of rushing up the stairs and i hit my toe straight on into a step. it isnt the big toe, it was the second one right next to the big toe on my left foot. it hurt but i just ignored it anyways after an hour it started to hurt a lot i cant walk on that foot. i cant move it even if i use my hand to move it it hurts really badly. i have sprianed my arm before and this is just worse. i know it isnt broken because it isnt out of shape, and there is no color change. so far i only feel numbness but pain when walking or trying to move it, and swelling. what can i do to help it feel better? how long will it take to heal?

Do you worship Attis or Jesus?

I worship to the god and goddess as equals jk I'm deist so I worship nothing but i believe in a god(not the christian jew or muslin one)

Scabs and bites on my legs? How to heal?

Use cortisone 10. The one with lotions and aloe sooth the best and stop the itching quick. I think baby lotion causes me to itch more.

Questions about recipes for and their ingredients for dogs?

How much a dog can eat of certain types of foods is directly proportional to their body size. For example, the 3 dogs my family has had for 12 years now have had chocolate at-least once a week for 11 years of their lives, sometimes once a day for a week straight. They are all still healthy, no arthritis or anything, and they've even been fed the cheap old ol' roy and others similarly as cheap from Walmart as their primary source of food when they're not being fed people food. If your dog(s) is/are small, I'd suggest doing a lot of research before conducting such experiments with their food, but if they are bigger dogs atleast 60 pounds or more, I wouldn't worry too much.

Casual Fling Guy: do you think its OK to go back to him after 3 years?

It sounds like you are just looking for something to do, some down time between relationships would be desirable to assess what you want out of the relationship. In the end it is just a hook up but it could set a pattern for future relationships. You seem to like older guys, go for something new, and try someone your age, if you haven't already. That might be exciting. To repeat you could be setting up a dysfunctional pattern to dating.

Would Scotland be able to exist as an independent nation, seperate from the UK?

I was thinking more along financial lines. they do get income from oil, gas and tourism, but their largest source of income is the english tax payer. services such as free health, prescriptions, buses, school meals, welfare support(dole)/social services would probably be cut, plus a rise in income tax. would all that be worth it?

Confused "For the First Time" lyrics?

I'm pretty sure it's meeting. It goes better with the rest of the lyrics and thats what I hear everytime I listen to the song.

How to save a dying pine tree?

near my house there is a pine tree that is dying, the needles are turning brown and falling off, it started at the bottom and is spreading to the top of the tree. how can i save it WITHOUT seeing a professional?

Sprained ankle help? ?

I sprained my ankle about three months ago in soccer. I have been wearing the brace my docotr gave me. The doctor said I won't fully heal until i rest it for a couple of weeks. I don't have the time to rest it bc of high school season. I was wondering when high school season is over and I rest it for a couple of months, will it fully heal back to normal?? Or will have been on it too long??? By this time it will have been 6-7 months. Thanks

Dental care charges on incapacity benefit?

Go to Shelter website and email them the question. Because they have advice on these types of things. The person whop gave the other answer by the way is an idiot who didn't read the question and should actually just piss off. Thank you.

How to cure a minor ankle sprain fast?

I was running today and I landed on my ankle.. Now,it hurts and I have a basketball game tomorrow. How to heal it quick to play in tomorrows game? It just hurts when I walk but if I am going to play tomorrow, I dont think it will last.

Question about my sprained ankle?

So about 5 days ago I sprained my ankle. Minor sprain, I guess. I went to the doctor and they told me to wear a brace and not walk on my foot. I've worn the brace, did the whole R.I.C.E thing for about 4 or 5 days now.. but just today I decided to walk on it. It doesn't hurt too bad but it's uncomfortable to walk. If I just start walking again and give up on letting it heal... what will happen?

Injured foot question?

Came down on my right foot very awkwardly 2 days ago. The exact area of pain is basically from the pinky toe, down the right side of my foot (Sorry i do not know foot terms) I do not think it's broken because when im just sitting down it feels fine. I can move all my toes even my pinky toe without anything hurting. However when i stand it is pretty painful, but not unbearable. My whole entire foot is swollen for some reason even though that one area is the only painful area. 2 Days ago i couldnt even stand on my right foot but now i can stand but walking is very difficult. Overall i feel like it is healing pretty fast if i can already stand on it. Those are some details now i want to ask what can i do to speed up the process of getting rid of the swelling? Should i just keep icing my WHOLE foot or just that area in pain? Any suggestions from personal expierence or whatever! Thank you.

Need help finding a new career for my mom please?

There are plenty of nursing jobs that are not as difficult physically.Since your mom has experience she could try to find work at a doctors office, clinic, as a case manager or supervisor. She doesn't have to leave nursing.

Do any of you girls shave your arm hair? Do guys care if girls have noticeable arm hair?

Dont shave your arms. Its really gross when you have stubble growing and arm hair with grow back even thicker. If it isnt that noticable, just leave it alone

Are the abused being re-victimized and blamed for their abuse by psychology?

No. As long as they are respected, it is about getting them the care they need and not giving unneeded drugs. As long as they aren't actually being blamed (like when people say a woman who gets raped was dressing sluttily and so was asking for it) then I think it is fine.

The prime minister struts around doling out money to other countries like there is no tomorrow?

yet we are offered cuts in services because we are told we are in debt. are we being told the truth about finances?

Are the Royal family really a bunch of sponges?

Not at all. The Queen receives a large sum of money each year - the Civil List. This comes from taxpayers. However, this is in exchange for allowing the state to use thousands of properties the Crown owns. The annual rent on these would be far, far higher than the Civil list.

Do TV shows like 'Shameless' simply glorify dole-scroungers and other stereotypes?

I find it interesting to note that so many people moan about such people in real life but these shows are so popular!

Help! My bubble eye goldfish popped his bubble?

My beloved Bubble eye goldfish had really large eye sacs, he's been doing great the whole time I've had him, but when I came home from work this evening I saw a huge wad of tissue hanging down from what used to be his bubble. So far his appetite is normal, he's actively swimming, but what should I do to help him heal? I'm heart sick and really appreciate any helpful answers

Why do people cut themselves?

all that crap about depression is just that...CRAP...i was a cutter and why did i do it? attention...i just wanted people to feel sorry for me and try comfort me... in the beginning the cuts were shallow because i was scared of the pain but as i saw the amount of attention i was getting i would attempt to make them more jagged and deeper. One day i saw someone else who was a cutter and saw how pathetic they were, i saw myself in that person...so i slapped myself around, told myself to stop being a whiny little emo b**ch and do something about it. and you wanna know who were the biggest cutters??? upper middle class white kids with more money and friends than sense, and yes i was one of those...If there is too much pain in life then do something about it, confront that pain head on, kick its *** and make it your slave, you get one life, make it the best one ever...I got out of it with no psych help, because there was no psychosis, just a whiny kid with nothing better to do...Grow up cutters...

What does thrush smell like?

i was picking my horses feet and they smelled. That was pretty much it. it has been very dry here though....and I just started today to put on shur hoof- which is pine tar and fish oil. Because his feet were getting really dry. but when I picked his hoof it smelled bad!

Does this quote from The Simpsons accurately represent the two-party system of America?

Yes. The main reason I prefer Democrats to Republicans is that Democrats aren't as skilled at running their scams.

Razor burns under arms?

It sounds like it. Put lotion on it. It will go away in a few days. I've had it before and it don't feel great.

Writing a story. Advice and rate?

OMG! i had a tear. you really put a lot of emotion into this and your writing has a strong voice. keep going. when its done get it published because i want to read the rest! its like one of those shows, you watch 1 episode and you're hooked.

Human bite on finger what do i do?

i got bit by someone on my thumb, i went to the doctor and got a shot, just in case bc u never no these days,neway, the doc gave me some antibiotics and send me home, he didnt even clean it just told me to use soap and water. well it is sore and the skin fell off after i soaked it like he said to do to get the blood out. so it looks bruised under my nail, the (small not deep for stitches) amount of skin fell off and it i very saw. is there nethin i can do at home to help the healing and cleaning process or should i go to the hospital

Will i ever be satisfied?

the true love you speak of is something far beyond your control. You obviously haven't experienced it yet. :D

Tuesday, July 19, 2011

Should MLB hitters be fined for accidentally throwing their bats into the stands ?

No, of course not. If they did that, why not fine them for foul balls that hit fans? Some things cannot be helped.

Can a Conservative win the White House?

Considering that moderates like Bush Sr. and Dole were moderates and that Reagan and Bush Jr. both ran as Conservatives? Even though Bush Jr. didn't govern as a Conservative he did run as one.

Why does the media keep shoving Mitt Romney down our throats as a viable challenger to Obama?

that guy failed miserably in the last primaries. What we need is an exciting candidate to challenge Obama and what the Republicans have to offer is very BOB DOLE LIKE or JOHN MCCAIN like take your pick

Depression, tried everything, someone help me please...?

alright, i guess this is my last attempt to try and get better...heres the story. i am 14, when i was little my parents would drink and fight all the time, when i was 9 my sister got sick and was left alone with me for a week, where she died,i went to foster care for a few months and got sent home and in october of 2010 at 14, my mom overdosed. so here i am, i have had depression for a very long time, since i was at least 8, and this is where im at. i have tried church and god, but nothing ever got better, i really tried hard. it was good but when i walke out the doors of the church i was back to the same place, i have lots of friends, but they have not helped. i have been in counseling and tried several depression medications, nothing works. i have had cutting problems since i was 9, i have suicidal thoughts all day every day. i have even had counseling for ptsd. nothing ever changes. should i go to the hospital? would it help? i cry all the time, im trying to heal and i want my life to be better, but it never changes. i wait and wait and wait. im done waiting. i dont want to be here. now on top of all this, i am 5'4 and weigh like 145-150 pounds, i think im fat. i think im ugly, i hate myself. i m a boring person with no talents or skills, i hate myself and my life. my personality sucks. everytthing sucks. someone please tell me what to do, and dont say "hang n there it will get better" ...because ive heard that a lot, guess what? it never gets better. no matter what i try, no one helps me, i have had mental health evaluations and have been labeled a moderate risk for suicide, but in my heart i know how much i want to die. someone, anyone, PLEASE tell me what to do. i cant take this anymore.

If I should be signing on, and how to do it.?

I'm just finished university, and I do have temporary work lined up for the summer, so I would only be signing on for 2 weeks, while the rota is being agreed. I'm usually the first person to say I'd never sign on unless I truly need it and hate how some people abuse the system, but it's come to the point where my parents are supporting me and I would like to give them the money for my food/board as they are being left out of pocket too. What do I do to claim "the dole"?

Re-pierced my bellybutton and its now pretty painful..is it infected?

I had my bellybutton pierced for about 5 months and then took it out for a year and it never seemed to fully heal. I just repierced it 3 months ago and its just not starting to hurt. Ive been cleaning it daily but its been getting more and more sore the last couple of days..I'm worried the original hole might have an infection or bacteria, what do i do?

My 4 week old kitten is dragging her back legs?

My kitten has been dragging her back legs but I haven't seen anything happen that might've hurt her, shes an outdoor kitten so I'm not always with her. We have no chance of taking her to a vet so is there anything I can do at home or can it heal on it's own. I love her and don't want to let her go... So to sum this up what possibilities can this kitten have and how can I help without taking to the vet.

What political party would I be considered?

I'm pro-choice, am against foreign intervention, support gay marriage, believe in religious and racial equality and tolerance, believe that taxpayers shouldn't have to dole out money for welfare, and believe in being peaceful and civil as possible with other countries. So, these are some of my main political beliefs. What party would I be considered?

Cost to build a 12 x 20 deck?

The deck I want to build would be free standing, use pressure treated pine. At it's lowest point it would be inches off the ground, and at it highest point about 2 feet off the ground. The high end would have a 4 foot wide staircase. I want to use 4 x 4 posts, 2 x 6 framing with a spacing of 12 inches between joists. Handrail will be basic and want to use simple beveled end ballisters. All work will be done by myself. What is the approximate amount I will spend (ballpark figure)? I live in the Cincinnati, OH area.

Im 13 and i have these symptoms any idea what i could have?

I would highly recommend going to the doctors because I had the majority of those symptoms and it turned out I was Diabetic

Ex-husband harassing me after our 31 y/o plead guilty to beating me up - what are my options?

Recently my 31 y/o son plead guilty to and is on probation in Virginia for domestic violence assault for beating me up in April of this year. In retaliation my ex-husband (divorced almost 24 acrimonious years) and my sister have been harassing my daughter (she does NOT live with me) to get possession of my son's belongings which he left in my house when he was arrested almost two months ago. Neither my son, his father nor my sister have approached me for access to my house. He has not paid rent since the police removed him from my property in handcuffs. My son gave his father power of attorney to enter my home which he had no right to do. My sister, a judge's secretary, sent an email and a fax with my ex-husband's demands to my employer's general email address and general fax number this morning which I don't have access to. My son is more than welcome to come get his belongings but his father and my sister are not welcome in my home at any time. What are my options to put an end to this drama? The father lives in CT and my sister is more than willing to facilitate whatever he wants as long as she feels important in doling out the harassment.

Goldfish questions PLEASE ANSWER I really need help.?

well, goldfish (especially common/comet goldfish) get fin rot or tail rot from dirty water. If your aquarium is dirty at the moment, do a quick water change and give him the treatment needed. Fin/tail rot usually happens when the water is dirty. Live plants are good but not plastic, because they're sharp and might stab onto the fins. i once had a common goldfish it rotted it's tail all the way and it's fins are clamped to his body and it sank to the bottom of the tank. I knew that it might have swim bladder disease but it might not be swim bladder disease b/c since his tail is rotted he sunk below and kept getting sucked onto the hang on filter. so the next day it died. So always buy/choose a goldfish that is healthy with no diseases.

My brother fell of his bike, Please help?

My little brother fell of his bike and hurt himself very hard on the hand/arms. After a couple of minutes, his palm side, in the middle ( a little to the right) is all blue, and he tells us that it hurts and he wants to go to the clinic. Is everything okay? Will his hand heal by itself? Im worried. Please help if you can.

Why does the UK feel it has an obligation to accept asylum seekers?

I was riding in a plane with a lady from the UK. She said they accepted immigrants because the UK exploited all those colonies out in the empire for so many years. This is of course leftish BS.

Why is there so much hate against theists/ religion on here?

They're constantly posting off topic, insulting, stupid questions. This annoys me. If they act like a decent human being to me, I act like a decent human being back.

What can I do about my dad?

i am a thirteen old girl.. I dont know what u can do.. But u should get a job and then move out of the house after u find a new place to live.. Ur fathr is frustrated always and he just takes out that frustration on u.. If u and ur girlfriend love each other a lot the tell her everything about whatever is happening.. And just tell her that u love her and sayher to help u a bit

Sprained tailebone still hurts?

hi! so i sprained my tailbone april 21 falling off my horse, and it still hurts. like getting up from a chair or using certain muscles can makes it hurt. i know this takes a while to heal but is this normal?? thank you

By now, most of you have seen Obama's latest attempts with U.S. Federal Aid . Do you think his timing and?

Tactics will have a negative or positive affect or do you think most people realize what Obama's actually doing right now? WASHINGTON – In his first comprehensive response to revolts across the Arab world, President Barack Obama is doling out punishment and praise, targeting Syrian President Bashar Assad for attacking his people but also promising fresh U.S. aid to nations that support democracy. Obama is also trying to erase any doubt that the U.S. supports the call for change.

Cracked Rib healing taking too long?

I cracked a rib 18 days ago, and went to the doctor and have been taking 800 mg 3 x a day of ibuprofen for 11 days now, and the pain is still there, should I be worried?

What can I do about my dad?

I live in Ireland in case anyone is wondering. Is there anything I'm legally entitled to do? All of my life I was abused in some way by him... When I was 5 I found it hard to spell or read, and he helped me by beating me and making me sit in a corner for hours with a book. There was a field behind my old house that if I ever played in, I would get hit with his belt. Over the years, the beatings have stopped, but I still get a lot of abuse and mis-treatment. I'm now 19 and basically treated like a slave in the house. He tells me to do really stupid things and if I don't do them or do them wrong, I get yelled at, called names and threatened. The latest episode was earlier today when he asked me to research something on the internet. I couldn't find it and he said send an E-mail to the manufacturer of the product. I composed an E-mail but he didn't like the sound of it and I began arguing with him that it was done properly. He then told me to shut my mouth or he would smash my face in. He is trying to control every aspect of my life. He dis-approves of my girlfriend and basically said we were going to break up and I shouldn't get too attached to her. We've been going out for a year now and still going strong, but that doesn't make a difference to him. I want to move out of my house at least, but I can't find a job, and I want to put myself through college in September. Last summer, I was on the Dole and he was taking half of it every week. I didn't mind that, but he also made me work with him and refused to pay me one cent. I tried to say I would take the whole Dole money as payment, and he threatened to throw me out of the house. What I want to know, is there any compensation I'm entitled to? I'm afraid to do anything unless it's sure that I would be free of him, because otherwise it'd just get worse... If I was living on my own, is there any source of money that I could claim that would be enough to put me through college and keep me basically alive?

What is the name of this movie/documentary?

I think it's, Rivers and Tides: Andy Goldsworthy Working with Time...he was my inspired artist for part of my GCSE art work, so i know some facts about him, and he's british also makes art with nature, so i'm pretty sure that's it! :)

Where did this Bob Dole joke origniate?

Bob Dole talks in third person he says "Bob Dole" instead of "I" or "me", it is called Illeism, it was literary device but some with psychological problems also do it. They might have dissociative identity disorder or something of the sort.

Congresswoman renews effort to end military sponsorship?

It's just another attempt by a politician who has no better agenda, and is trying to gain popularity. Unfortunately that sponsorship by our armed forces in NASCAR helps recruit young men and women who are desperately needed to serve in our military. She is wasting her time, because even people in the house committee will realize that their are more important political venues. The U.S. has been giving billions of dollars to Afghanistan and those people are not even on our side, In fact the Afghanistan CIA just prosecuted members of their military for giving information to the U.S. to help us capture Bin Laden. Like I said, it is her feeble attempt to gain notoriety, but it's amazing how ignorant she thinks the public is. The military sponsoring in NASCAR is some of the best and most positive publicity for recruitment purposes, especially when the fans are watching the men and women of our armed forces attending and participating in NASCAR events. The next to go is congresswoman Michele Bachmann. That woman is "off her rocker" too. Be careful come election day, and don't forget to vote!

How do I treat raw pine wood?

I am using the trunk of last year's christmas tree as a stand for a dress form. I cut all the branches off but I'm not sure what to do next. I want it to look relatively organic, (not drastically sanded down or anything), because i like the raw naturey look, but I also don't want it to quickly rot and I don't want it to feel sticky from sap residue. What kind of oil or varnish can I use on it to treat it? Thanks so much

Can you help me with my maths problems please?

I can help you with your grammar problem, its "Can you help me with my math problems please?" not "maths"

Earlobe too thin with purple streak inside from stretching?

I will admit that I went too fast in gauging my ears. A year ago I started gauging every week until I got to a 0, and from then on I would gauge every 2 to 3 weeks until I got to 5/8. After a month I went to 3/4 and that was a huge stretch, I got it done at a piercing shop because I couldnt do it myself and the stretch went fine, but I stupidly changed to flared plugs after 4 days because the huge tapers were hurting my ears, and ended up battling with infected torn earloabes for about a month after that and took them off for more than a month to heal the infection. I started all over again after they were healed, but was so eager to get back to what I used to be that right away from the 2 g I had shrunk, I was able to go to 1/2 in without any pain at all. I would wait 2 weeks in between stretches, but these stretches were painless, and I thought it was because I had my ears previously gauged to a bigger size. I got to 7/8 without any problem a month later but decided to downsize to 3/4 because one of my ears started stretching closer to where my head connects to my ear and I know that was from the result of fast stretching so I went back to try and correct that. But my other ear is way too thin, it is really dry always and peeling, and has scar tissue at the back that curls inwards from having torn that earlobe the first time I went to that size a couple of months back. My question now is, is my blood flow being cut off from the thiness and that is what has caused this redish purple streak across the inside of my earlobe? What should I do? Would taking off the plugs to let it reheal for a month or so solve that problem and the blood flow in my ear should return? I am just worried my ear will tear apart on its own if the problem is the blood flow? I have no infections my ears dont puss or anything of that sort nor hurt. My ear had practically torn all the way in half the first time so the scar tissue that grew to cover that is what is so thin around the ear.

Why am I too scared to sleep?

Yeah I would go to see a doctor and they might give you a tablet and they might have someone to help you.

What does this dream mean?

I had a dream last night that me and my best friend went to a chorus concert at her school (I don't go to her school), and we were on stage, and the curtains opened, and we were singing Amazing Grace, but then I forgot the lyrics, so we had to start over, and when we started over, we started singing, and then the front of the stage caught on fire. At first we didn't do anything about it, but I didn't want the fire to spread and harm us, so we went off the stage through the back door, and somehow, it took us to this tattoo parlor, and then my best friend really had to pee, so we went down to the bathroom, and it was all like, flooded with dirty water. Like, with pine needles and stuff in it, and on the door frame and all over the wall of the bathroom, was pictures of us,growing up together, and we were looking at them, and then it ended. Does this mean anything?

Thoughts about housing just one horse?

I leased a 24 yo Appaloosa mare for about a month and since then, I was given the option of buying her, which I am. Presently she is being boarded at a neighbor's barn, but it has always been my dream of not only owning my own horse, but housing it, too. I have been getting a lot of "flack" from my neighbor for wanting to bring my horse home to live. I understand that horses are herd animals, but I feel that she will get better care and much more attention if she is with me. Where she is now, I have no control over how much she is fed, when she is fed, how long she has to wait before being fed or even brought into the barn. In the spring her stall floods out and I have to buy extra bedding (I use pine pellets) just to keep her dry. Because my neighbors are afraid of being sued by anyone, I am not allowed to bring any family or friends up to see my horse. At home I have a German Shepherd, and he and my horse get along. My husband and 78 yo Mom want my horse brought here as well, so she will definitely be getting a lot of attention and this would be the only way for my mom to see her. I have no room or finances to keep any additional animals for company, but by no means will she spend her days completely alone. I'd appreciate your thoughts on this....

Can this get infected?

Okay so last night I sliced the side of my pinkie finger off and not wanting to bleed put rubbin alcohol and peroxide over it with a bandaid and went to sleep. Tonight before bed I took off the bandaid and now the area around the cut is all white and soft. So I thought I should go to bed without a bandaid because it stopped bleeding and it might heal better, should I leave the bandaid on? Can it get infected???

I have a swollen thumb for over 3 weeks now?

and want to know what to do to make the swelling go down. I first had a cut, that has now healed after having the thumb stitched, soaked in salt water, in a splint off and on. I have tried ice packs too.

Why do cons lie about 47%-51% of Americans paying no federal income tax?

One does not prove the other. Your logic is completely irrational. We also have some of the highest effective corporate taxes in the world. Your pathetic rant is baseless.

What's wrong with my ankle? Random pain?

Hey, so I sprained the ligaments in my ankle months ago but today I get random shootin pains throughout my ankle and foot. I went through physiotherapy for my ankle before so it healed fine I'm not sure what's wrong?

Monday, July 18, 2011

Can I get the dole and study part-time ?

I'm thinking of doing a post-grad course in college and was wondering if I could legally get the dole while studying part-time. I'm unemployed at the moment but not getting the dole.

What do people do when missing their love?

Work on a present for him then when you're off work ! Like a big project so you can channel all your love into it :)

Can someone explain how the Housing/Dole System works in the UK?

The answer about the JSA �53.45 is right, plus it isn't that easy to find a room and get full housing benefit for it because it has to be within the cheapest third of the range of local rent levels, and a lot of landlords won't take people on housing benefit.

I just disagreed with a conservative, help?

I disagree with Tories all the time, and at every opportunity. Their greed, selfishness and arrogance know no limit, a little like my hatred for them in actual fact. Why they have this holier than thou attitude and misguided belief that they are in some way superior to evereyone else is a complete mystery to me. Time and again they prove to me that they are simply brainwashed by the Tory press and will believe anything the Daily Mail tells them. They are so rigid in their views that nothing will ever persuade them that they are wrong and their sense of superiority is such that they occasionally believe that they are super human. I actually believe all 10 of your points would work equally well. They are very bad losers and to defeat them is like committing murder. I would be inclined to laugh every time a Tory dies myself.

I need help finding a word?

I want to say ... 'his face was scarrd' ...( as in scare... where you have a healed cut that leaves a mark but say it in past tense =)

Can beggars be choosers where getting work is concerned?

I think if people arent getting benefits and arent complaining that they cant get work then yes they can be picking... But if somone is complaining about not having a job, is struggling to live on what they have, is on benefits etc then no, they shouldnt be picky... tax payers dont pay you benefits so you can be a snob when it comes to jobs.... So in his case if he can live on the savings he has etc etc and isnt going to be burden on society then its perfectly acceptable for him to be fussy on what job he goes for.. but someone who is on benefits and needs a job, then no, they shouldnt be picky, they should accept what they get... and to get them through it is just think that they wont have that job forever, but for now its money. :)

Should I wear my bikini?

I just got a tattoo like almost 2 weeks ago.. it's still peeling a tiny bit still. My safe grad is tomorrow, and we're going swimming. I don't think I should go swimming since it's not completely healed, but I still kind of wanna show off my body and my tattoo. Should I wear my swimsuit anyway or would it look stupid if I'm just sitting there and not swimming?

HOW CAN I GET MY BANGS TO GROW OUT?

my bangs are short what can i use to get my bangs to grow out i recently just started usein b&b pine tar grease.

Why Doesn't My Hair Grow Past My Shoulders?

My hair is exactly to my shoulders.Any suggestions on how to make it grow? I don't care I can wait as long as it takes. Does eggs and mayo really work?Does dread lock/twists help?It never grows past shoulders never!Any techniques to do? I'm African American. When to wash hair?( I wash every 2 weeks on weekends?) When to moisturize,grease, or condition hair? ( i do every weekend ) ANYTHING ELSE? I drink lots of milk, pine apples, pears. And is it true that you hair will brake at its natural point?

Jobs for 50 year olds?

my mums been on the dole for ages and the rules are changing and all us kids are over 16. what can she get a job as that will support the family with children who all go to school and are ages 16-18. which means our rent in quite high. she hasn't really got any experience, any ideas?

Am I in love with my female friend....i dont want to be :S? HELP :(? need good genuine advice?

Yes you have a crush on her and also sounds like you fell in love...But you are prolly not the first guy in this situation and you wont be the last one either...You have to do the toughest thing..control yourself find yourself a girlfriend

I want to ask what is the meaning of a high count of segmenters&neutrophils and low lymphocyte.?

I'm 21 years old, my neutrophils is 86 same with my segmenters and my lymphocyte is 14 but my WBC is normal, The doctor said the results are normal but I think I have a problem with my body.. When I stand for a long time my feet swells when I put pressure on it or pinch it, it does not come back to its normal state. I have consulted a doctor and the doc said that it is a beri-beri and the cause of the swelling is because of the excess water in my body and lack of eating nutritious food like food with Vitamin B but after days of drinking and eating the required food and medicine it still swells if I sit or stand for a long time. my thighs also hurts if I put pressure on it. I'm so scared because I think I have a kidney problem or nerve problem. And also my face is itchy and is red, I think this is also connected to the problem in my body. When I went to the derma she told me to have a CBC result and the doctor said that the result is normal. She said it is because I have allergy on foods like pine apple, mango, dried fish, shrimp, crabs, seashells and also because of the UV rays. She gave me a cream to ease the itchiness and sunblock. I tried it, at first the redness faded but it reddens again. I have plan of continuing my studies but I can't because of my health. Please help me!! Thank you.. God Bless....

Is this good for guinea pigs?

I have 2 guinea pigs, and we just got pine pellets for them, and we read their perfectly healthy. But in the past couple days we've seen them chew on the pellets *theres dust left behind and we thought it was their urine but it isn't cause those things don't dissolve* and we even saw one of them chewing on it and we stopped him. Is this bad for them if they ingested them? Is there anything I can do to stop it? I won't be able to get other pellets for 2 weeks, cause we went to 2 different stores and they don't have have the ones we usually get, and they both said 2 weeks for stocking. Please help? thank you.

Why wont my ear pearcing heal ?

i had my ears pearced last april 23rd they still havent healed properly and its anoying how i cant take them out to sleep or for pe my teacher thinks im lieing or somethig cuz when i told her she made a face

How do i set up a chipper van buisness in ireland ?

hi was just wondering if any of ye know what i need to do to start up a chipper van buisness i know il have to get hse approved but how do i do that and in regards to pulling up on the side of the road to sell food i know i cant do it as its against the law so can you tell me how i can do it and im also on the social welfare payments me and my boyfriend lost our jobs and have been living on that income for 8 months so i decided i wanted to set up the chipper van but how do i tell the dole office and will they completly stop my payments i know i can ask citizens advice but was wondering if any of ye on this has done this or has any experiance thanks very much for reading :)

Is it just me, or is the federal government funding of private schools and the private health insurance rebate?

forms of middle class welfare that many would be still be able to use, but would choose not to use if the federal government took those away which they are planning to? most people who are in the private sector are middle classes or upper classes using them, very little are people on the dole and lower incomes, so why support upper middle class people? the whole idea of welfare was to help the neediest, not those in the middle or upper enchelons, why did the howard government ever start supporting those who use private, don't people understand the word private?

How long for a spinal fusion to heal?

I had a Spinal Fusion done in July 2010 l4/5 after repeated failed discectomies, can any one give me information regarding expected outcome regarding pain and mobility

How do you like my story/writing?

It was pretty good. 8/10...not my kind of book but I know some people would read it. I really liked how you wrote it, it really seemed back in that time.

When are Americans gonna wise up & stop electing bottom feeders to excessive decadent lives on the public dole?

Never because it takes a bottom feeder to rise in Politics. Do you have any Idea what goes on during these conventions at election time? And there are so many that the biggest cash wad grabber is going to get votes and the biggest liar ( the one who always makes the right promises like cutting spending in the Federal Government as first promise) who is the most convincing will always win.

Can I use dryed pine needles for bedding for chicks?

I would find something else, because pine needles have sharp ends on them. Don't use newspaper, because when they run their feet will slip sideways and it's hard on their joints. You can use grass clippings as long as the lawn hasn't been sprayed with any chemicals.

By now, most of you have seen Obama's latest attempts with U.S. Federal Aid . Do you think his timing and?

As always happened in the past that those nations being supported ended up fighting US ground using the supported weapons and aids given to them in the first place. So, any policy towards this may and will have the same ending tendency.

What can I do about horrible, violent neighbors?

Almost two years ago, my son was walking our dog on her leash. He was near our house coming home when a neighbors dog ( who is always outside alone with no leash) ran up and starting biting my dogs hind leg. My son tried to stop it and the dog bit him. My dog retaliated and badly injured the other dog. (My dog was chow-lab mix, the other a poodle) I've known my neighbors my whole life and new they would do something to my dog so I sent her away. They called animal control who came to my house for my dog. I told them I would only tell them where she was if they promised not to hurt her. They agreed and said I could pick her up in ten days. They put her to sleep. The officer says that I told her to. The neighbors took me to court and we settled bc it was cheaper than the lawyer.I had a doctors report about my sons bite and a few neighbors saw the incident but animal control refused to talk to any of them. I'm upset but there was nothing I could do. My neighbor was mad bc we didn't pay more. A month later, somebody threw my cat on a grill. He was badly injured, but survived and took over a year to heal. Now he is strictly indoor. Another of my cats has disappeared. The latest was the worse. I took in a cat that had been left by another neighbor when they moved. I already knew the cat and they left her pregnant. She went out one morning at about 4am. I found her at 6am in the road in front of their house. She had been shot in the back. We took her to the vet and neither she or her kittens survived. During this time, our car windows have been shot out and my kids bikes were all stolen. I've lived in the house my whole life (it's already paid off) and I don't want to move. My great grandparents lived in this house, that's how long it has been in my family. My mother has health problems and we cannot afford another house big enough for all of us. The police and animal control say they can't help. I don't know what to do. I have another cat now but she is strictly indoor. I'm scared of what they will do next. I've set up cameras a few times but have not been able to catch them yet. I'm starting to be afraid to even let my kids out of the house. What can I do?

I need God to Heal Me?

Hi - I am going through some health issues and have always considered myself somewhat close to God but I really need Him right now and I feel I can't get close to Him. How can I strengthen my relationship to him, ask Him to heal me? Can He do that? I am living in so much fear and feel so alone. I need God right now. Please help

Do I need to go to the doctor again?

I got punched in the nose 6-7 months ago, I got an x-ray and the doctor said it was just swollen and it will heal over time. I got hurt in the nose mildly about 2 times in the past few months and it hurt more than it should have I think, my nose kind of hurt a little when I moved it around. Recently it started hurting a lot when I just rubbed my finger on it, I decided to wait a little. After 2-3 days the pain went away and now there is a red pimple. Will this pimple go away and is my nose fine? Do I need to visit the doctor again?

Sunday, July 17, 2011

Ticketmaster's online ticket system sucks!!?

Tell me about it. There are also no counter-measures in place to keep resellers who buy in bulk off the site. Tickets for the Big Four at Yankee Stadium were snatched up within minutes, and I am not paying upwards of 100% to attend. BS, man.

Several questions for you?

Sorry, this is the one question per posting lane. Please gather up your paragraphs and go through one at a time. Thanks, we appreciate your business.

Design house arrest ankle bracelets.?

I wanted to know if there is a web site that will help me build stuff from scratch, like a bracelets that will pine point were my child is in the house. if he gets out of bed, or leaves the house. How do I make a satellite signal that could tune in one small area, and adjustable advice to track from 5 to 100 feet of a pine point area.

What's the name of this manga?

Okok so i remember it was a oneshot... And there was a doctor in like a dream and there was a guy that looked like a girl in a nurses office and he/she could heal people? Andd the people at that school worrshipped a guy and there was a picture of him but his face was covered... And when the doctor get out of the dream... he finds out that the girl is already dead... Oh and i'm pretty sure his hair was black... And the people in the dream were ranked by something about cards... like kings queens and jokers? or hearts and diamonds and whatnot... Sorry i'm just spewing out everything i remember about it... And the doctor had glasses i'm pretty sure... Thanks to anyone who actually knows the name of it!!

My dad is abusing me?

Apply to get a council house, or in the uk you can get a private rented flat and the dole will pay for nearly all of it, and at college in the uk there are grants u can aplly for. Go to the college website and look or call them and ask them about funding and what you would get. Also speak to the dole and find out all about the benefits you could get until your working. Also go to the doctors and tell them how depressed and anxious your current living situation is and the doctor may be able to give you a letter for the local housing authority to speed up the chances of you getting a house. Help yourself and do ur research thoroughly then get out asap.

Help sister in law problems?

My husbands sister who is on the dole regularly has one night stands after a nights out and has also had an on/off affair with a married man for almost twenty years. So what with that and her binge alcohol drinking i do not have much respect for her as I am a clean living person. My husband puts me under pressure to hang around with her but i find her behavoir embaraasing as she is loud and gets banned from places because of this. He cannot understand that I do not want to be around that and because he respects her so much, I am wondering if he is up to her tricks now also. I am very confused and of course I love my husband what shall i do?

Can i move with my child without her fathers consent?

i have recently finished an OCR Level 2 Health & Social Care course at my college my aim is to one day move to cardiff to study mental health nursing at the uni there however my college does not do a level 3 Access to Nursing degree so therefore i am planning to be moved by Aug to study at a different college about a 30 min drive away from where we live now and prob about 45- 50 mins if public transport is being used. However this time last year i was at court with my daughters dad over custody of our daughter. the judge ruled in my favor and so i am my daughter primary carer and her primary home is with myself and he has contact on just a saturday 11am till 6pm. when i told my daughters dad that i have enrolled at this college and on this course and plan to move (as it would be to far for me to travel in the morning plus i don't drive and id have to get my daughter to nursery and the local one is a 15 min walk away and by the time i've got her there got on the bus to the train station got of the train and got on another bus to the college i would of already missed 15 maybe 20 mins of my first lesson. bair in mind the nursery only opens at 8 am and my first lesson begin at 9 plus i have already contacted other nursery's near to the new college and there already fully booked up and the college nursery won't take her as we don't live in that place yet but if we did move there and have an address there they'd be happy to care for her while i study) he my daughters dad kicked off telling me all her family are up here your never taking her away from me am a spiteful little s**g sending me abusive text message after abusive message threating that when next go to court he can't wait to see all my plans and dreams (to provide a better future for my daughter and getting of my bum to get a job and off the dole) fall apart so my question is do i have the right to move away with my daughter to be closer to the college so am not travelling as far in the mornings am in college without my daughters fathers consent or do i need to go back to court with him over it??

How much do you get paid on the dole in Aust? (more info)?

I'm an 18year old(almost) and i'm planning to move out next year to Melbourne. I've had 2jobs I worked at a fast food for a year and my current job in retail. I'm not getting the amount of hours i'm after, if I am it's only $70 a week then the next week I won't have any hours. I have rent to pay and a phone bill which makes it really hard to save up. I've tried looking for a job but I can't seem to find anyone whom will hire me. Would I get more on the dole? How much roughly?

Why is the dole given to people who do absolutely nothing but sit on their ***?

Okay theres my friend he does absolutely nothing with his life hes 19 years old and he just sits around the house smoking weed and centrelink still pays him his 400 dollers a week, which he is supposed to be looking for a job and he wont he literally says I CANT BE ****** , then theres me I have to study full time at community college and I went and tried to apply for the dole so i can get assistance for rent, cause I cant work fulltime and study fulltime at the same time otherwise I will fail, and they basically told me to go away because I was apparantly capable of working fulltime which is ridiculous cause how can i balance a fulltime job(40 hours a week) so i can pay for rent,bills with full time study 7 hours a day and 5 days a week including nighttime studying and exams, but my friend who does not study whatsoever or even do anything he still gets money just simply handed to him for doing absolutely ******* it pisses me off sooo much, is this unfair??

Does any1 know saxophonist Courtney Pine-he did a sax solo for the film"Angel Heart." adviseMeSimilarMusic?

i also like stevie ray vaughn - the sky is crying. looking for jazz, blues, old school soul and r&b. please recommend me similar sounding stuff

Lip piercing, took out when infected before and now it's weird?

Its probably trying to grow shut. Put some rubbing alcohol on it and put your piercing back in. Every day put the alcohol on it and maybe twist the piercing every now and then so your skin doesn't stick to it. It should go back to normal.

Am I being bullied in the workplace?

You are not being bullied, you just have a b*tch for a boss. Document everything that is a violation of company policy and turn that into her boss along with a letter signed by you and most of your coworkers describing her attitude and the work environment it creates.

Why is my gerbil's nose bleeding?

My gerbils nose is bleeding... It's spring time, his bedding is carefresh (not pine) and he is 4 years old. I don't know what possibly is making it bleed. Please help!

Do liberals demean Herman Cain as a "pizza man" because they are racist?

And in their world view, African American males cannot achieve success unless it's doled out by their party?

Which of the following is an atroph?

An atroph is something that makes its own food and doesnt depend on an other organism for energy so the answer would be E(:

Deck boards are seeping sticky pine tar?

4 years ago sealed the deck with Thompson's Water Seal. 3 years ago sealed it with Cabot's transparent stain. This year sealed it with Cabot's Semi-transparent stain. In 3 places the pine tar is still seeping out in droplets. It sticks to your shoes. Any ideas? I have tried to scrap it off- then use a solvent. that worked for a while now it is back.

Is it acceptable to make contact with/see someone I used to see casually 3 years ago?

do not stay friends it NEVER works. all thats gonna happen is one of you will like the other and you will be stuck in an on and off relationship

How to heal my mouth from braces?

well I have braces and whenever they make a cut or sore in my mouth, which they do a lot, i use something called Oragel Antiseptic Rinse which is a nice, easy to use mouth wash that helps clean and heal all types of mauth sores and pains very quickly and easily. I usually start feeling pain relief from it within a few minutes of using it and start seeing my sores go away within a day or two of using it. In my area, its usually hard to find this stuff but hey, maybe its easier in your area. Oh and I always get the mint flavored kind, which tastes great XD

Does the bleach and pine sol pregnancy test work?

Pregnancy tests are $1 at the dollar store. Just get one there. If peeing in bleach really worked then pregnancy test companies would be out of business. As for when to test...I'd wait at least 2 weeks after sex. And the egg doesn't get released during your period...it typically gets released about 2 weeks before your period but can differ for every woman. And no period doesn't necessarily mean no ovulation. See a doctor and educate yourself a bit before having sex.

Ok so like please answer like does he love me or is he just a total creep?

omg so like theres this really hot guy and his name is ethan baker and like i think i'm in love with him. so like we were sitting underneath this bridge like thing and i think it was in paris idk anyways so like we were sitting there and he suddenly yanks my head his way and stares blankly into my eyes for like omg idek it was like an hour and he was like 'my love, your so pretty i just wanna eat up all your fingernails' then i smiled cuz it was really sweet and then like he grabbed my hand and actually started EATING MY FINGERNAILS i was like *GASP* WTC ARE U DOING UR SUCH A FREAK and then i ran away and he chased me and i was wearing heals so like i tripped and he tackled me and i feared for my life OMG! but then he like smiled and kissed me and i think i'm in love like i met him yesterday and it was totally just meant to be like were getting married and yeah. like i love him. so like. answer my question.

Should we break the cycle of generation after generation of ?

Should we break the cycle of generation after generation of welfare familes who live off the government dole from the womb to the tomb by limiting the amount of time that you can receive welfare/social service monies by mandating that an able bodied adult head of the household can collect welfare monies up to a maximum of 30 months after which they are no longer eligible to receive welfare monies over the next 5 years ?

Saturday, July 16, 2011

Help ;LL i think my brother smokes weed <3?

i love my brother to pices the problem is that he has just turned 18 and i figured out that he smokes weed im only 13 and all my life i used to look up to him but now i dont. it really upsets me to think he is doing this i dont understand if he is harming himself or any thing?? i found out he smokes weed as i was stood behind he and he was talking and he said "yeh i had to go in the shed t get the weed " i dont think he new i was there but i was! it wasent our shed . i really want him to stop you see i think he is ruining his life he didint get good gcse and he has no job he is pon the dole. he has had a job but then he got fired because he diddint smile. i am really worried about him and it makes me cry i think my parents have an idea but i want to mkae him stop alltogther some one help me please !!! ;'(( x

Something is sticking out of my suture area.?

Hip surgery. I have a 2 inch scar that's finally mostly healed. Except something is sticking out at one end. It looks like string. Lots of fibers making it up. I attempted to pull it out but it's really stuck. The suture area is hard and raised. Operation was over 5 weeks ago. I'm guessing that is something that isn't going to dissolve on its own. So what is it? Is this normal? And is it normal to have such a raised hard area so long after surgery? Thank you.

How do I get a guy to notice me?

There is this guy in my ballet class (don't judge) that I really like! But he doesn't even know my last name. I really want him to notice me in a good way. I also want to talk to him. He really doesn't talk that much. Any idea how I can get a good conversation in? PLEASE!!!!! I'm head over heals!

Theres a hole or dip in my gum from my stitches! AHHH!!!?

so i got a skin graft done last week because the tissue connecting your gums and your top lip together was causing a gap in between my teeth and i just got my braces off so that had to be done. anways i was with my friend today i felt this pain in my gum and i look in the mirror i had seen the stitch knot had moved a little and where it was before there is like idk how u say it like a gap or a little dip? idk but theres that. OH like a temperpedic bed, u put yur hand on the cushion it leaves a hand imprint so theres like a imprint of a knot in my gum. and it really hurts. im goin to the guy who did my gum graft this thursday and im scared he gonna make me get surgery agian. :( cuz he said if anything happend he was gonna take skin from the top of my mouth and put it on top and that day im supposed to go to west virginia for a family reunion and i dnt want to be in pain. its very little. the stich just moved a little like the not and everything is practly healed. so idk if the stitches are just starting to desolve or they r just loose. Please tell me the scoop on whats up with my mouth! :)thanks

Smashed toenail question (please read additional details)?

I smashed a toenail about 5-6 weeks ago.it was not the whole nail though.its a little less than half.but towards the base of where the nail grows,it is a tiny gap between the skin and the nail.will it heal or fall off? Im just wondering.

A bit of my story, too confusing?

i guess its confusing in that you havent explained whats happening, but that would come with more of the story. its well written and im interested to see what happens next, but its not a confusing story so far

Looking for a game store?

I want to find a game store that sells Playstation (1) games. Ive tried Gamestop and i cant buy it online either. Any near Pembroke pines or broward county FL?

Sprained ankle help????? ?

I sprained my ankle about three months ago in soccer. I have been playing on it with my docotrs permission while wearing the brace my docotr gave me. The doctor said I won't fully heal until i rest it for a couple of weeks. I don't have the time to rest it bc of high school season. I was wondering when high school season is over and I rest it for a couple of months, will it fully heal back to normal?? Or will have been on it too long??? By this time it will have been 6-7 months. Thanks

When can i take out my stitches?!?

i cut my hand on fathers day so about 8 days ago. when we it be okay for me to get the stitches taken out or take them out myself. (first time ever getting stitches so i want to make sure that its healed up enough to take them out but not over healed so i can get them out)

Tingling then light numbness in right ear?

Hi, I recently went to a very loud restaurant and later had some strong tingling inside my right ear, the ear was in pain the following day so I kept it sealed with cotton. Later I did a hearing test and was about 8" from the speaker at 25% volume, a tone going for 2 second increments at 15khz gave me a ringing in my other ear but the right ear couldn't hear it. Later on I felt a heavy numbness in my right ear, though I could hear normally out of it, the numbness has subsided significantly, but is still there. I feel that going outside in a breeze, my other ear can feel a sensation of air inside but a portion of my right ear cannot, the one with the numbness. Will this heal in time?

Rate my new diet Please! (anorexic trying to gain weight)?

Good but I'd eat more. All the guys in the hospital I was with and me were put on 3000 calorie diets, plus 3 weight gain supplements

Is my flatmate epleptictic or is he just faking?

My flatmate is overweight/unemployed, spends half of his life playing computer games, & guess what us tax payers are paying 4 it $$$, yea that's is right, I' am a worker,but I am disappoint by th way my flatmate responds ands reactes around me/he acts like retard at time's, like seriously when does a 24yo need to sleep at least 12-14hrs a night, as myself I can go out & have a good time, & I am 37yo & I work two jobs, & I can get by on 5-6hrs sleep, although he claims to epileptic, but although I do not know much about this illness,this is not the same as I have experience epileptics in the past, yep that is right I have been around them & have experience them before, but the way my my flatmate?friend carries on I think he is full of **** half of the time! like he just seems to be a fat lazy dole bludger!

Is my new pet hamster sick?

Well, I don't think that she's sick. My hamsters did that all the time and were fine. I would get rid of the pine shavings though when you can.

How do I get rid of a hickey, fast!!!?

So i'm not the kind of girl to get a hickey. Not in a million years, no one would expect it of me. But my boyfriend gave me two last night on my neck. I have my grad TOMORROW! Is there any way I can speed up the healing process? other than just covering it up with make up? thank you!

Can someone answer this question?

My wrist had gotten slit by a peice of glass wa'll trying to close a window, it turns out the tendant had gotten cut 90%, so i got stitches...but today it felt like they had popped, i have to let it heal from six to eight weeks but i was supposed too get into a fight with someone....will my arm be able to heal well enough to get full strenght and win dis fight?? Thanks for your answer;)

Whats the best remedy?

i got majorly sunburned sorta and now it rly hurts >.< is there any good remedies out there tht could ease the pain or help it heal quicker?? if u kno plz tell me its very much appreciated :)

Has the Marxist Fraud's stimulus sugar rush worn off?

Wall street is ready to bail unless Obama blows the rest of his stimulus stash on them. Will the Marxist fraud dole out the rest of his stimulus coke to the fiends?

Im almost 40 yrs old and my dad still feels compelled to dole out 'friendly' advice on ....?

mostly anything. He is invited to babysit or housesit once in awhile by my wife then he gives me unsolicited advice on parenting. My oldest is 12 i have 2 other boys close in age who are younger. Also have a stepson who is 20. So Im married and have a wife and more than 12 yrs parenting experience. I tell my dad I dont need advice. Most of the time he tells me his way of doing things or is criticizing my choice of doing parenting. Almost critiquing my parenting. He even gets into arguments with me sometimes(like a power struggle). When I was a kid I was the oldest of two and he seemed to favor the other son. My mom died when i was a teenager she seems to have my best interests in mind. I tell my wife about how it bothers me when Im at home and this happens she doesnt seem to care about it. My dad gets monetary benefits for his time here. thanks.

HOW TO NOT GET A RASH?

every year i go camping at the beach for the weekend, im at the beach swimming for like 7 or 8 hours in all, everyone always gets rashes on there thighs near there genitals, and sometimes the rash is on the genital, wen i wear boxers i get a scrotum rash, wen i wear tidey-whiteys i get a thigh rash, how can i prevent it? or heal it? baby powder?

Trying to get close with my brother again after a trauma that occured thirty years ago?

In 1981, my eight-year-old brother Andrew was kidnapped by a family acquaintance and held hostage for three weeks. During this time, he was routinely beaten and sexually abused by his captor. He was also burned with boiling water and forced to listen while his captor made crank calls to our family pretending to be the police, telling us that Andrew had been found. He was rescued after three weeks. It had taken that long to track him down because his captor had them moving around all the time. It's strange to me how a period of time as short as three weeks could destroy so many lives, and leave so many still broken after thirty years. Andrew's body recovered from the trauma, but his mind never healed. The Andrew that came back to us was not the Andrew we had previously known. Before the trauma, Andrew was very social and outgoing. We were only two years apart and always very close. I never had any other brothers or sisters. He was a sweet little boy with a good sense of humor, and, being an older sister, I teased him constantly. Not meanly, but in a playful way. He is the most ticklish person to ever walk planet Earth, and as a little kid he loved it when I tickled his feet. We wrestled and play-fought and just enjoyed being with each other. When he came back, everything changed. Andrew had always been close to me and my parents also, but after he came back he acted like he couldn't even stand the sight of us. I could never understand that. I thought he should be happy to be back with us, people who loved him. He told me when he was older that I was a stranger to him and that there was a gulf separating him from everyone else. He was resentful that other people hadn't been where he had been. When he first came back and started beng like that, I tried so hard to bring him back. I tickle-attacked him like I used to and even though he squirmed and laughed just the same, he didn't enjoy it at all. He wouldn't wrestle either, and didn't seem to want to be around me at all. He did well in school and never had issues with drugs and alcohol, he's been successful in life and has a wife and kids, but for the past thirty years you can tell that something in him is just gone. Something inside him died all those years ago and, despite this, I still hope so hard that I can bring him back. I still see him and our children play together, but that confidence is gone. He underwent counseling as a child and teen but it didn't help him and he doesn't see anyone anymore. I encourage him to see someone about his depression and the pain he still feels but he says it wouldn't make any difference. I'm sorry this post is so long but I just don't know what to do to help him. He's physically healthy and financially stable, but I want to be close to him again and my parents want the same. Is there anything I can do to bring him back, to make us all just a little closer?

AMC.........Since the soap is leaving?

I am so with you on Billy Clyde and Ray Gardner. In the history of soaps, i don't think there has been a villain as malicious and truly scary as Ray Gardner. And Billy Clyde was the stupidest "pimp" I've ever seen. SuperFly he was Not!! Just loved hearing him call Estelle "Lil Darlin'".

My toe goes numb for no reason?

Basically for ages my toe keeps numbing itself for no ( obvious ) reason? It's just happened to me whilst I was laying down, it also causes pain in my heal:/ my mum just rubbed my toe and it was better, but then as soon as I moved it locked itself into place/ numbed itself again! What is it? And is it serious!?

Religious folk: do animals go to hell for commiting (HOMOSEXUAL) activities.?

Animals don't sin. Animals are driven almost entirely on Instinct. Animals don't know right from wrong.

Renting a property privately?

im 20 and was looking to rent a house or flat out but im on the dole and i was wondering do i have to apply for a council house and wait on the waiting list or if i rented privately would the dole pay housing benefits?

Which method is better for declawing a cat - traditional or laser?

I love cats. I have had cats for all my life. Always indoor cats. They're my babies. I have always de-clawed and will continue to do so. I've got a new kitty and have heard that laser de-clawing is less intrusive with better healing times than traditional de-clawing. I'd like to know if anyone has any ideas on the subject of which is better.

A bit of my scab from my tattoo came off and there is no colour underneath?

For a start i have load so tattoo's and i never put cream on them because it scabs longer. Your better to leave it. Secondly sometimes with black ink you can't see it properly until all the scab comes off, don't know why just happens, on the other hand it may mean it has lifted some of the colour out you will have to wait and see im afraid

Need some new tattoo advise?

my person told me to apply lotion 3 times a day. Also don't use scented soap, something like softsoap should work.

Whats a good inexpensive tree to put in my horse's pasture?

A nursery is a good idea. Stay with local trees and fast growing. What ever trees you choose make sure their is a fence around it, horses will chew on trees for the fun of it. It also keeps them away from the trees when they are taller, if you only have one or two trees in a large pasture they are lightning rods. I have seen groups of horse killed by one lightning strike. They will still get shade.

Physical therapy advice for my dog... Seriously?

About 3 months ago my beagle hurt his back paw and started limping around on 3 legs. After about 5 days we decided it was time to take him to the vet to see if it was serious. After examining the dogs leg and paw he couldn't find anything wrong so he suggested we give him awhile to see if he starts using it again. Well about a week after that we actually noticed a cut in between his toes on that paw so figured that was the issue. After a while the cut healed but that was about a month and a half ago and he still isn't using that leg. We've taken him on long walks to see if that will help but it doesn't. We also noticed that although he doesn't like to put weight on it that he can with no discernible pain. And finally we just ran out of ideas on how to get him to start using his leg again. Honestly ankle weights are sounding like a good option but not only are they impossible to find for dogs but it just seems wrong so any ideas or advice would be greatly appreciated.

How do I stop loving my son?

Hunny, you and your son need some serious psychiatric help (separately is probably the best way to go about this until this scandal passes by). This is not normal, and although it may of been something you felt was out of your control... these sort of tendencies need to be left on the side lines. Please please please go to a therapist, talk to someone besides yahoo.. this is a serious problem, and it has already started to run your life, don't let it take over. Best of luck to you and your son.

Did this girl really love him ?

my good friend was dating a girl online. this lasted 12 weeks.after week 1 she was telling him she couldnt eat, needed money for medication, rent etc. he sent her �70, then �300 then last week �500 for her airfare here after he sent the last amount she stopped contacting him.n so why throughtout was she professing her love for him. he still has her on facebook and is pining for her. she was like a model. will he hear from her agin and did she love him n?

Can Ear Gauges go back to normal?

Its a mix of size and healing time. Most gauges go back if you stop at zeros. Anything farther and they'll close but not entirely. Just give them time to heal in between stretches and know that too big won't heal entirely.

Friday, July 15, 2011

Should i wear my swimsuit anyway?

I just got a tattoo like almost 2 weeks ago.. it's still peeling a tiny bit still. My safe grad is tomorrow, and we're going swimming. I don't think I should go swimming since it's not completely healed, but I still kind of wanna show off my body and my tattoo. Should I wear my swimsuit anyway or would it look stupid if I'm just sitting there and not swimming?

How can I tell what infection my daughter has?

Please take her to the doctor! Your daughter sounds very sick. A doctor may be able to diagnose the problem and give you proper procedures on how to cure her.

What would happen if i put a larger sized stud/hoop in my nose then what i have?

my parents want me to get a small small nose piercing but i dont want a small small one i want maybe a 18g one. But i want to know if i do get the small small on what would happen if i let it heal and try to put bigger in it?

I lacerated my head and got 5 staples near my hairline. The back of my head is numb and itches.?

I had a vasovagal episode ( fainted ) and split my head needing 5 staples near my hairline. The actual lacerated area was not really that painful although having the staples put in with no numbing was fun. Having them come out was worst but it's over with. My question is that the back right side of my head is and has been since the injury, numb and itchy. Sometimes I have to pull my hair to relieve this. I'm wondering if I should be concerned or if this is normal, possibly I did nerve damage and it will take time to heal? If it were the area that I split open it would make more sense to me.

Cartildge piercing not healing?

Its been almost a year and my piercing still hasn't healed. I've been using dial foaming anti bac. Soap . Any suggestions? I really want it just to heal up already.

What is the best and healthiest type of bedding (wood shavings if possible) for guinea pigs?

I use to use pine shaving but I heard that is bad for them. Any advice on what I should use? Preferably not too expensive?

Is it a busted ear drum?

I was at my friends house a couple eweks ago, playing his new drums. I only played them for about an hour, but after that I had this very loud high pitch ringing in my ears. I am pretty sure it went away after a week or so (Or I didn't notice it for some reason), but just a few days ago it became noticable. It became noticable after I was at my other friends house with his little siblings, and they were really loud. I was next to one of them that just kept screaming really loud, and I could hear my ear vibrating. I was wondering if I got tinnitus from the drums and the ringing got louder because of the screaming, or if I busted my ear drum from playing drums, it healed quite a bit, but then busted again because of the loud screaming. Is it even possible to get tinnitus from drumming for only 1 hour? Anything will help... my mom is going to take me to a doctor in a few days hopefully (She thinks it isn't serious) but if it is tinnitus, is there anything you can take to sooth the ringing? And if it is a busted ear drum, how long would it take to heal if you have gotten water into it?

Does this sound like pneumonia in my rat?

A month or so ago, my rat started making pigeon noises. We thought it was strange but didn't think much of it. It started getting worse so we went to the pet store to buy him really comfy litter (we were using pine) and the lady at the pet store said that rats have sensitive nasal passages and that the pine might of affected him. At this moment, our rat has only gotten worse. The new litter hasn't done much and he is getting worse. Around his nose, it is red and mucusy. He has hair-loss all over his face and a bit on his back. His energy has gone so down hill. When we cleaned his cage, we put newspapers in as usual (he usually stores it) but he hasn't done a thing. He has shown no interest in his food at all! We are so worried! Does this sound like pneumonia to you?

Disgusting smell on the floor will not go away!?

We live in a small apartment. There was, what we think, a spill of chicken juice from a bag of frozen chicken. We didn't realize it until about 24 hours later and the kitchen smelled like something DIED. It wasn't coming from the fridge, the sink, or anywhere that made sense. We realized it must be the floor. We have washed the floor about four times but the smell is still around. The windows have been open with a fan for ventilation. This has only brought in the flies and gnats. I think they are still attracted to the floor! We've been washing with comet and pine-sol and a sponge. The garbage is emptied, nothing else is sitting around. What else can we do??

My dog has somewhat of injured leg what should i do.?

My dog got hurt a while ago on his right leg and healed after several weeks and since that day hes had a weak leg and when i played with him months after he got hurt again and couldnt walk properly for about 2 days and it later got slightly better and is doing fine now, but now i believe its his knee that i hear cracking while he walks like its kinda grinding on his bone or something it doesn't do it all the time though. Other than recommending going to the vet cuz we will if it doesn't heal, should i bring him for walks again cuz im just worried it gets worse hes reseted on it for a while now what do you think?? My dad wants me to exercise it is he right.

Bob Dole's tenure as Chairman of the NRA overlaps with his tenure as U.S. Senator?

Oh man. What does either the NRA and the RNC want with Dole? He was a total screw up as a Senator. Ran away from most political fights with Democrats. Whatever bravery he showed on the battlefields of WW2, he was a total, spineless wimp and white flag waving coward on the battles of capitol hill. He'd rather cave in than fight, and many times he did.

Broken bone help please?

You risk reinjuring your right hand if you engage in sports. Chill out and let your body heal. Find something else to get better at.

What is the best bachelor degree for a Masters degree in petroleum engineering?

This is something you should really be discussing with the adviser at your college. Their job is to help you with choices like this. Call and make an appointment right now.

I have a pine dining set that is finished with interior stain/poly combo... can I use yacht varnish over it?

I just re-finished the set last year, but now want to use it outdoors. I'd really prefer to not have to strip/sand it down again if possible, and am wondering if yacht varnish (or anything else) can be used over the interior stain (Minwax Polyshades in Classic Noir, satin finish) to make it weather-resistant?

22 weeks pregnant - Nipple piercing?

I'm 22 weeks pregnant and I've had my nipple pierced for almost exactly a year now. If I take it out now, how long will it take to heal? I've never taken it out and I'm quite scared to for some unknown reason.

Could life get any worse for her?

At my age most teenage girls hate their moms but I have such a close family that i would do anything for her. So my current problem is that she is having the worst time with life. She grew up in an abusive home were she had to cook and clean, and when something wasn't done right her dad would beat her or lock her out of her house for hours. Then when she grew up she married (what she thought was her true love). Together they got through her first two cancers (Hodgkins and cervical) however about two years ago she was again diagnosed with cancer (this time lung). Her husband (not my actual dad) was with her through her surgery and half of her chemo then out of the blue he decides that he wants a divorce. Half way through her chemo he threw us out with no where to go and no money literary we had nothing there was only one person working and that was my sister working a Walmart and that went to the house we finally found. It was a terrible house it was 100+ years old it had black mold everywhere there were gaps between the floor boards and there were gaps between the wall and floor and the ceiling even fell down on us.(by the way living with my mom is me my 3 other sisters, my 2 brothers, and my oldest brothers girlfriend who ate everything and didn't give us a dime) we were then kicked out of that house just so the landlord could more his 5 children in it. We then had to move to another house 2 hours away with only enough room for me my mom and my sisters. my brother had to go live with my aunt and uncle and my oldest brother and his girlfriend had to get their own place (which is actually a good thing however he is now living with us till he gets his own apartment) We are currently still living in the same place but having a terrible time keeping up with the bills because once again only one person is working (my oldest brother) and only spending it on himself and not really helping with bills. we are only getting by on the checks that come from my real father for child support and the ex husband for my little sister. she doesn't even have enough money for her medicine that she really needs without them she might die. I really what to help my mom i'm currently trying to find a job and so are my sisters even my mom is and she has only 1 and 1/3 lungs left (from her surgery) and she can hardly lift anything because she still isn't fully healed. I dont know what to do I really what to help and everyday she struggles trying just to give us a better life and no one is here helping her she is the best and I just want her to have a better life without worry and without fear of were we are going to be in the next week or what we are going to eat tomorrow . she gives up the money for her pills just so we are able to be warm and so we can stay here... I pray every night for something to come to make life better but still here we are...here she is trying to do the best for us.I don't know what to do Please just give me some advice someone i don't know what to do we just need so much help. I know life could be worse and i know that there are people out there that have it worse and i try to think of them and how good i have it and i know i do but i still cant help but think of my family and my mom. My mom is so strong she tries her best to hid her pain and sadness but it comes out at some points she even wishes that she would die just because she thinks that everyone's lives would be better.I just want her to be happy and safe because i wont always be in this house with her. Its like no matter where she goes its still a living hell for her. even in her marriage. in 2003 every night they would fight because he would be so intoxicated. He even attempted to run her over with a van. Throughout the marriage he cheated on her. even after the split he bad mouthed her told lies about her to the point were he friends decided that they no longer liked her they sided with him. everything he said was a lie. He never even loved her he told that to her he said it was a marriage of convenience. HER LIFE HAS BEEN NOTHING BUT A LIVING HELL WHY DOES IT JUST KEEP GETTING WORSE.its like it will never get better. why lord why us why her she doesn't deserve this pain this hatred. I'm sorry this is so long i just need help and i need to vent She has given everything up for her family and friends and this is how it ends up Its not right.Please give me advice.

How do you run normal (i have forgotten)?

you have to use your arms too. 3 quarters of running is arm movement. well, i dont run for fun (thats weird) so i dont know if people who do stop if something hurts or if they get tired, but in track, even in practice, i just run through the pain (inside and outside knee injuries, shin splints possibly, inside and outside ankle injuries, big toe injuries and achilles injuries all on both of my legs) and i dont stop if i get tired. plus, you can build up from running. you dont have to run 5 miles on the 1st day, but no offense, but thats what you get for smoking. it screws up your body, but congrats for being able to succesfully quit. and use your toes. and i dont run long distances (100 through half a mile, long,, triple and high jumps, and 100 and 400 hurdles), but in xc, i heard that breathing through your nose and out your mouth helps, but i think its a load of sh*t. just remember to take in a lot of oxygen and water.

What happens if you dont sign on the dole?

my friends partner is unemployed but seeking work, he refuses to sign on the dole for job seekers allowance as doesnt feel comfortable claiming benefits, I have said that for NI contributions he must sign on but he still doesnt agree, what would happen if he doesnt?

Need help want to make our apartment pop yet be sleek & modern, need paint/painting/decor idea's?

Some years back I had a one bedroom condo that was only 600 square feet and had only two windows. I painted all of it the same color to keep the color continuous and not break up an already small space. Because there wasn't a lot of natural light, I wanted a relatively bright color. I went with a buttery yellow that was very cheerful during the day and went to a more golden, warm yellow in the evening with lamp lights. Kept the furnishings fairly neutral with bits of color here and there. It worked quite well.

Is my hamster sick? :( 10 POINTS~?

She sneezes CONSTANTLY! Especially when she is just waking up. Every now and then she will be quiet and won't sneeze. I know this is bad of me but we had to get pine bedding. CareFresh is very expensive and we don't have the money to keep paying for it 1 or 2 a month. I had some extra CareFresh so I mixed it in with the pine. She was sneezing before we bought the pine bedding, but she has gotton worse ever since we put it in her cage. She eats normally but doesn't drink very often, I catch her drink every now and then but not very often. We can't take her to the vet because it cost alot of money. But if it gets worse i'm willing to take her. She means the world to me. Is there anything I can do? 10 points!! Thanks!~ (:

I am unemployed on Jobseekers Benefit (�ire).. how much Child Support should I be paying to my ex in the U.K?

Let your wife take it through the CSA, you will have to pay �5 a week, that will be taken directly from the benefit. She won't get it backdated as the csa only works from the date you put the claim in. Some mothers assume they will get more going through the CSA but it doesn't always work that way, I know it put my partners payments down when she decided to go that route thinking she'd get more.

Why does this person emulate the handicaps that other people have?

I would ask her why she makes fun of people, and let her know that you don't like it. How old is she? Sometimes people do that when they are young because they think it's funny. When we get older, we realize it's not funny. Discuss it with her, it will help. Otherwise, I don't think there's anything seriously wrong with her.

Where is Bob Dole when you need him?

The guy was quite possible the worst candidate I have ever seen that won a nomination, but the people thinking about running on the Republican ticket this time around make Dole look like an articulate genius that's full of energy.

Thursday, July 14, 2011

What does a endocrinology doctor do? and why would i need a bath suit to go see that kind of doctor?

soo i am supposed 2 be tested for diabetes which i am and they said my insulin levels are high... i am 12. doles tht mean i have diabetes and if i am going to a endocrinology doctor why do i need a bathing suit... what do they do and should ni be scared because i am i am sitting here cryingg... plzz if u know plz help! thanks!

I have a few questions about acne and these products i have, and what to use? please help A.S.A.P!?

I hate to say it but it sounds like nothing is working. The only option you have now is to get serious, stop wasting your money on stuff that doesn't work and go to the dermatologist. They will know exactly what's wrong with you and make it better. seriously, in my eyes that's the only option left

Advice regarding kitten and 8 month old child?

The kitten could easily jump up into the crib, and curl up on baby's face and suffocate them. They love to cuddle. But an 8 mo old should be able to move, and kittens are small and light. But I wouldn't risk it myself.

Protein shakes good for surgery recovery?? help!?

just has surgery today on my nasal cavity because the both collapsed and were blocking my sinuses.... Since i workout a lot i learned protein helps muscles recovery faster so i thought maybe it would help my nose heal faster?? Any information help please?

Im a " fallen" Christian ...?

I've been a devout believer for over 26 yrs.. I'm finding a lot of b.s. in my "beliefs" over the last 3 yrs. Yes, I KNOW the book of Rev is unfolding before our eyes, yes, Jesus loves us & He is awesome!! , He's my BFF; seriously. But God? Idk so more... I am sooo sick of "Well, your mother suffer a f*cked up loooong death because of Adam & Eve, blah, blah.. THEN, your Dad(a 3rd generation preacher! )is also gonna suffer as sloooow as I choose, too, because it's for "the greater good". Yeah, I know..I'm Mr.big bassass & could "heal" or "take swiftly" but choose NOT to!!! Cuz I CAN, child. Like it or leave it!!!! For I AM GOD! Well.. I choose to leave. YOU GOD made the choice FOR ME, forever being separated from you & yours, Mr. Father do whatever - I - want". I wonder, just WHO was the evil one!? Satan wanted AWAY FROMYOU WHY!?????

Are pine needles edible?

All pines, spruce, fir - yes. Same for juniper, and I believe cedar. Don't know about larch. NOT yew. Also try chewing the pitch from the edible species.

Cleaning pine cones for bird toys?

How would I go about cleaning pine cones that have been on the ground so I can use them as bird toys?

Can I be Wiccan and still believe in the Christian God?

I have been studying Wicca for quite some time now and I Love how it's so into nature and I want to do the healing potions to help people But I'm scared that God may think I turned his back on him and not allow me into heaven when I die if I do so please tell me can I be Wiccan and still believe in God?

Funny things to say during intercourse?

I was thinking of pulling a "Bob Dole" ormaybe take off the condom and say "Houston, we have a problem..."

What vitamins can I take to help heal my cut?

I cut my finger, and had to get 7 stitches. I just want to know if there is a vitamin I can take to help speed up the healing. I don't care if there is a scar, I just want it to close up faster. Just every time I move my finger, I can feel the cut open again.

What can I use to repel skunks?

I have used undiluted Pine Sol in bottles to repel raccoons effectively. I was wondering if Pine Sol would also work for skunks, or if there is something else I can use to keep skunks away from my home. For raccoons, you put the undiluted Pine Sol in open containers around the perimeter of your home, and the raccoons stay away. Any help here?!

World of Warcraft Help Me Please!?

Im wanting to make a second character and have it down to this Deathknight, Paladin, Druid, and maybe a mage I cant decide which one I want i'd prefer a DPS or heals I have a 72 orc warrior and im pretty experience so it should not be that hard to play any. WHAT CLASS SHOULD I CHOOSE??

Remove/fade scars on arms????

i have scars on my arms that are lines not red or anything! because they have healed. they are like IN my skin or something! i've tried cocoa butter, and lemon juice and scrubbing it/ or massaging (cant spell xD) it! ... help??? and NO.. i cant go out and buy some expensive product

Why dont dole receivers pick litter?

Same thing here in the States. Throw in cleaning grafitti, because the neighborhoods where you will see the most litter and grafitti are the areas where you find the largest populations of welfare recipients.

What is the best bachelor degree for a Masters degree in petroleum engineering?

There was MSc in " energy managemnt " offered in Surrey, UK. only place in those days. but, as an engineer i could appreciate the contents .

Is my mom making me clean too much?

I guess but she does pay for the house and I'm pretty sure she's just stressed because people at work get on her nerves. Idea: take breaks every now and then between cleaning up.... You could watch tv or get fresh air before finishing up

How long does the dole take?

Okay, so I live in South Wales, and I am hoping to sign on today, so I'll have a bit of money whilst I look for a job. How long does it actually take to come through? Does it depend on how many people in the area are signing on, too?

Ireland and Debenhams store card.. can they do this ? or what can I do?

Just got a phone call from the store card people telling me ...I missed my payment last month . They asked when I will be paying it ...I explained I could not pay just yet because I'm now out of work for over 7 months and on the dole . They mentioned a debt collector company would be handling my debt . I have never missed a payment and I have always paid more than I needed to . I owe 600 Euro

Can you pick up your dole on a friday?

I was unable to get to the post office today, will they give it to me on a friday or is the cut off thursday (It's unemployment assistance) IRELAND

Revenge ideas, anyone?

hide the remote while your at work or take it with you and just mysteriously find it when you get home like twice a week or something simple like that.

What can I use in pasta salad instead of pine nuts?

The pasta salad has spinach, bacon, and it calls for pine nuts, I can't find them and they are expense at Fresh Market.

Can i still play ball?

Yes you can still play ball... let it heal Ulna or Radius takes few months to heal. Do not pick anything up or sleep on that side. Careful after it heals.

Would Hydrangea do well in this spot?

I live in Southern California. Hydrangea doesn't do too well here because of the heat. And is normally sold as a shade specific plant. I do know that it does like sun though. There's a corner in my yard, it need something. Mainly it needs the Bird of Paradise that's growing there to be ripped out and replaced with something nicer. So I thought, Hydrangea. It will have a space that's about 5 feet wide and 6 or 7 feet long. The location is under a tree, a pine actually. Right at the base where trunk starts. There isn't a terrible amount of roots there. Never has been. The tree is about 30 - 40 feet tall. I Measured the light the corner receives. From sunrise at 6am till between 11:30am - 1pm it gets the sun. After that its shaded and receives light dappled light throughout the day. Till right before sunset where its receives about an hour of sun. So morning sun, partial dappled light, and an hour of sun at sunset. The soil tends to stay moist in that back corner. Not wet, but it takes about 3 days for the soil to dry. Would hydrangea do well in this corner? Could i squeeze two of them in there?

What is a job of a councillor?

I'm just wondering, coz there are 6 people who I know who are councillors my neighbour and local big mouth farmer, who does nothing but moan, especially at BT, another two from town, who work at the council office with posh cars and moaning to the local press about cuts and how another councillor or AM or MP is doing so badly, and hardly does nothing for you, for example, theres a footpath near my house that needs raparing coz its dangerous and erroding to the river...instead he and the council pays thousands on re-tarring a road that doesn't need tarring, and changes a free car park into a pay carpark, or ordering people to make signs and stuff, spending thousands on helping scroungers on the dole and raise rates and council tax...the rest are old and seem to talk much and do less...if I wanted to be a councillor do I have to be a member of a government like AM(assembly member) or MP? and who exactly is the head of the council? for example gwynedd council..an AM? or all of them?

Dream about arguing with my boyfriend and snow?

In real life I have a long distance boyfriend. He lives in Texas and I live in New York. Currently He's on vacation to California for a month. My dream was that I moved from NY to a house that's in Texas so I can be closer to him. I was laying in I think a bed outside and there was snow on the ground. Also in the distance I could see a frozen pond. I was next to a pine tree that was covered in snow and for some reason I kept touching the tree and the snow. I didn't feel cold in my dream from the snow. Then I think it turned to nighttime, I'm not sure, but I called my boyfriend and I started arguing with him saying that I literally left my family to come and live close by to him and he's on vacation going to California and Las Vegas. After I said Las Vegas I got a text message saying that he's only going to be in vegas for a week. The strange part was that I had a wet napkin up to my face and I was fake crying for some reason. I dont have a problem with him going on vacation so why did i have this dream?

Is it possible to weatherproof a pine kitchen table so it could be used as an outdoor table?

We are getting a new kitchen table to seat more people but have a lovely pine table that I wonderd if we could treat with something so it could live outside - along with the pint chairs I would also have to treat.... yatching varnish??

Should i be worried if my lice scabs itch?

i got rid of my lice got my hair cut short n my lice scabs shud i be worried r they healing or what cause i have no clue y they itch

What wall color would go well with a natural pine wood floor?

Since the pine is kind of yellowish, any color that has a tinge of yellow to it should work ok - greens, browns, yellows, oranges, golds, turquoises, etc. - as long as you pick them from the yellower part of the color spectrum.

Wednesday, July 13, 2011

Ear Piercing Allergy- What do I do?

I am soon going to get my ears pierced. For the third time. The first time, I got my ears pierced at Claires with 14k gold posts stamped 14k on the actual post (yes I can read that small). After a few days, the holes started leaking this nasty yellow pus, and my mom put alcohol on them and nothing helped so we took the earrings out amd the holes closed over. I have been cleaning my ears twice a day during that time, and I did not touch my ears. A few years later, I got them pierced again, with gold plated studs. Same story. I really really want my ears pierced. My grandmother sent me 4 pairs of 14-18k gold earrings, and I want to wear them. I'll be fine once my holes heal. I don't know what earrings to try when getting my ears pierced though! I don't want to re-pierce again. My mom suggested that she pierce my ears herself with a sterilized needle and thread floss through like people did in her native Ukraine, but I don't know! Any suggestions?

Did I damage myself from smoking for 45 minutes?

I smoked 2 years ago about half a pack and they were really strong. Today, I smoked a cigar and cigarette in 45 minutes. I tried not to inhale and just held it in my mouth and blew out. I'm still in the process of recovering (my lung capacity is coming back and my nose and stuff). Now, I'm afraid I juts reversed the healing process and I'm really scared. I want my regular lung capacity and breathing to come back. Did I just cause serious damage to my lungs and nose and stuff? Is there anything I can do to accelerate the healing process? I am only 17 by the way. I am relaly scared right now. I know I did something stupid but I won't do it again. asdlkjfhajkldfshjkadhjkslfaklsjdfasdfasd…

Why does he continue his affair?

I fought with my husband for a year before he admitted cheating with his cousin while he was in his home country for a few months. He gave me the story it had nothing to do with love it was just sticking his **** in a hole and other crude stuff. He said I wasn't supposed to find out and he didn't want a divorce. He doesn't care I hurt. Well a few months ago we were fighting and he told me he can't live without me and he wants to grow old with me, blah blah. But yesterday I saw a facebook conversation from him to that cousin's sister. he was writing how he couldn't sleep or work. He missed his cousin and he wants her. But he doesn't want to be second option to her stupid boyfriend. And he was trying to get his cousins sister to call her but the girl didn't want to answer the phone and talk to him because she said he left her to go back to his family (me and the kids) and she doesn't want to start an affair again. But I thought me and my husband were ok and trying to work things out. But the message also said he had been talking to her for the past few weeks and thought everything was ok and then she seemed distant and then stopped talking to him altogether. So I assume he has been sneaking off somewhere or at work to talk to her again. When I asked him who he was chatting with he was laughing and saying my cousin. I asked him if they were talking about the girl he had the affair again and he said no just his problems and none of my business. So I snooped and then when he got home that night he changed his password......but it was too late I already saw everything. I don't understand why he can spout things like "I can't live without you" to me and then be so obviously in love with his cousin. I never believed they just had sex a few times because it "just happened" because he came back from his country a different man ...all depressed and stuff. I am planning to divorce him that's not the question. How can he have sex with me here all these months but have been pining for her. What the heck is that? I wonder if he has psychiatric problems because this seems to extreme to just be a cheater and a88hole. Does anyone know any legal options I have for keeping him away from our kids? I am concerned because his affair was INCEST! Also his message says he was trying to get her to meet him in Mexico in July and then sneak her across the border. How can I report this or get them in trouble for this? It really scares me how he can be so normal with me at home and have all this stuff going on in secret..............

Advice regarding kitten and 8 month old child?

definitely do not have the kitten in your room with the baby. You should only have them together when you are there to supervise. I have a 5 month old son and a 3 month old puppy and the puppy sleeps in the kitchen of a night. She used to cry when i first got her but you have to be strong and not go to them, they need to get used to being alone at times. Your baby's health and safety is more important than the kitten being a little lonely of a night. She'll get used to it x

Did this girl really love my friend ?

my good friend was dating a girl online. this lasted 12 weeks.after week 1 she was telling him she couldnt eat, needed money for medication, rent etc. he sent her �70, then �300 then last week �500 for her airfare here after he sent the last amount she stopped contacting him.n so why throughtout was she professing her love for him. he still has her on facebook and is pining for her. she was like a model. will he hear from her again and did she love him

I was lazy in the past,and didn't bother applying for jobs,but now that I apply for as many jobs as possible..?

...no-one wants to recruit me.They must notice that I've been on the dole for 3 years.Any advice what I can do to improve my prospects?Would going to college help?

Are "Raw Food" Entrees High in Calories?

Pine nuts, cashews, and olive oil are deceptively high yes. But they are still really good for you, but you would probably be really surprised at the fat and calorie content. For example, a cup of cashews has almost 800 calories!! Did you make the "pizza" yourself or is there are really awesome raw food vegan restaurant somewhere out there??

How to make a dichotomous key about these trees?

Start out with the most general characteristcs, then end up with the most specific. Hopefully, you're not waiting for someone to do it for you...

Should peoples' welfare money be cut if they refuse a job they're offered?!?

Welfare needs to be cut regardless if you have a job or not. Some ppl stay on welfare bc they make more by doing nothing than actually finding an employer that would hire them!

How to heal a broken heart :/?

I really need help. I trusted my bf with anything and everything, including having unprotected sex and using the pull out thing, which caused constant worry afterwards. and he was the first guy I had sex with and my first bf too, and he was older (24, I'm 16) which I loved cuz he took care of me and made me feel so special but now he hasn't texted or called me in 3 weeks cuz I refused to have a 3some. I've realized my friends were right, and he just wanted me for sex and now he's done with me. I cant stop thinking about him and crying, Im so miserable, I've never felt so sad and broken before. I'm hoping to have fun on a cruise this weekend, but idk. What's worse is i can't even tell my parents cuz we had to secretly date. Idk what to dooo!!

Can you answer this question without branching off into some liberal tirade?

Why, if you are on welfare, wic and government medical care, do you have, and continue to have more kids? Libs want to save planned parenthood, isnt the fact that you have tons of mothers on the government dole who continue to have more kids, proof enough that planned parenthood money could be better spent elsewhere?

Staring new Job but no P45?

Your employer will give you a P46 form to complete. They will then send this off to the Inland Revenue to inform them you are now working for them so that the correct tax code can be issued. In the meantime you will be on a standard tax code (747L) but on a 'week 1, month1' basis which means it doesn't take your period of unemployment so far this tax year into account. However, this will be sorted out when your new tax code arrives so it will be evened out.

Why do Republicans nominate the guy who came in 2nd place the last time around for President?

Lets review: 2008 (McCain 1st, Romney 2nd), 2000 (W. 1st place, McCain 2nd), 1996 (Dole 1st, Buchanan 2nd), 1988 (H.W 1st place, Dole 2nd place), 1980 (Reagan 1st place, H.W 2nd place), 1976 (Ford 1st place, Reagan 2nd Place), 1968 (Nixon 1st place, lost by an inch against JFK in 1960). My question to you is why does the GOP do this? Except for 2000, we literally have seen the GOP go with the next-guy-line candidate. Can you explain to me why, without resorting to partisan slams?

Help spider identity? SERIOUSLY PLEASE HELP...?

You mention spikes, which indicates its a Microthena spider, who are orb weavers. This family of spiders vary in color and even the spikes on their abdomen.

Why do most elected Tea Baggers live off the Public Dole? I thought they hated Welfare?

Turns out 15 members of the House Republican Tea Baggers took money from the Tax Payers with Public Farm Welfare programs. Some members took hundreds of thousands. The amounts received since 1995 range from nearly $180,000 (Indiana Rep. Marlin Stuzman) to over $3 million (Reps. Stephen Fincher of Tennessee and Kristi Noem of South Dakota).

Are these things just a coincidence?

I've been thinking recently and alot of major things in my life that have happened I have predicted. For example, I met my boyfriend through mutual friends and as soon as I met him I knew he was going to be important in my life and I would fall in love with him. It wasn't love at first sight, I don't believe in that anyways and I fell in love with him much later. I wasn't surprised when we started dating, because I knew it would happen. I can't explain how, no visions or anything, I just felt it. Also, a very close friend of mine recently moved away and about two weeks before she told me the news I had a very intense feeling/thought that she would be going away somehow. And then she did. Alot of smaller things that have happened to me I have saw coming and/or dreamed about specifically before they happened. And I have also saw things coming for friends and other people I really didn't know. I pick up on peoples personalities well and I can tell alot about them from just meeting them once. I am by NO MEANS claiming I am physic or that I have special powers. I am just wondering if these things have ever happened to y'all. Feel free to call me crazy. Oh and if it helps, I once read somewhere that scorpios(which I am) sometimes have physic or healing powers maybe its just programmed into my personality?

Exciting ideas for dog show?

If you are encouraging people to bring their dogs tone down the kids items like bouncy castle and sumo sites, face painting etc. provide a LOT of shade.and kiddy pools for the dogs. You dont want the place overrun with screaming bratty children that will spook the dogs or get in the way. Provide LOTS of poop bags, have.a secret scouter for "most responsible dog owner award" (always scoops their poop, keeps their dog from pulling on leash, does proper introduction to other dogs etc.) And give that prize at the end of the day

When are people on the government dole going to start manning up?

I have to be honest, I'm an independent moderate and most the people I know who are on the government dole (mostly unemployment) happen to be conservative. In addition, just as many conservatives take social security. I think you are out of touch, both conservatives and liberals take advantage of entitlement programs. The only difference I see is that the conservatives who do, and whine about these programs, are hypocrites.

Bunny cage bedding questions!?

NO PINE!!!!!! It can cause liver damage, respiratory problems and DEATH from the liver damage!! Remove your bunny immediately!!

If you were a boss,would you give a job to someone who has been unemployed for 3 years?

I'm a junior manager in a chemical factory and I have been employing and firing people for nearly 5 years now. What I have learned from my superiors and experiences over the years is if the job candidate have blank spots and short term employments I would automatically think that the person is not reliable and can quit working for me when we need him/her the most. And probably have stability problems. Unless they have a real excuse and they really convince me it's not going to happen again. But no matter what before making a contract with them I would most probably put them on a trial period first for at least 3-5 months. Hope that helped. Good luck finding a suitable job for yourself.

Why are we giving money to China when we owe them money?

Not rational. Charity begins at home. The environmental protection agency should be paying your scientists to do research in this area, then when they discover a new problem solver they could put a patent on it. If you pay China to do all your thinking for you they will eventually take over your country. America's future lies in research and development. If your government had put a patent on the internet your nation would be debt free now. America invents and China, Japan, or India puts a patent on what you invented and makes money out of it.

Am I weird for knowing this?

I am only 14 years old but I am very, very excelled in my education. I am obsessed with college medical textbooks and can tell you all about the body and it's functions. I know how to perform medical examinations and heal deep wounds and know the right amount of medication a patient should have as a dosage. I love how to work with the body and know I can fix a problem. I want to be a Pediatric Oncologist and do data research on patients to cure them. I am made fun of for being like this but I have many friends who think it's amazing I can to this. Should I give up this dream?